About me

On this page, I’ll do my best to describe who I am and to answer any interesting or non interesting questions about me. I got this list of 200 questions from conversation starters world, and they have a bunch of other cool stuff to check out. The list starts out casual, and progresses into ending with personal questions.

Casual questions to get to know me

What are your favorite colors?
Green, purple, orange in that order.

What attracts you?
Audaciousness, boldness, confidence, authority, humor.

What repels you?
Timidness, meekness, people who take forever to make a decision, or speak about themselves in a negative way.

If you didn’t have to sleep, what would you do with the extra time?
Easy. Just pour more energy into all my 67 creative hobbies and interests! Practice DJing, work on photoshop skills, etc.

What’s your favorite piece of clothing you own / owned?
It’s gotta be my Asian themed tuxedo from Zara Man Black Label. Just so unique, bossy and cool! I wear it every chance I get. Either that, or my pair of cowboy boots with brown leather and Italian snake skin.

What hobby would you get into if time and money weren’t an issue?
The ones I’m already doing. I can’t think of any hobby that would qualify for the question that I haven’t started pursuing already.

What would your perfect room look like?
My bedroom. When I bought my apartment, I gave myself completely free reigns to go interior design bananas on one room, and I chose my bedroom. I tried to make it as luxurious and extravagant as possible while being able to get really dark. Color theme: black, gold & purple. I chose black oak floors, black walls and black ceiling. I put up fat crown moldings and a ceiling rose that I painted in gold. I also put up a gold curtain rod and found royal purple & gold jacquard drapes. Across from the bed, I hung a huge gold framed mirror, and I found a really cool brass lamp of a lion holding a ring in it’s mouth. It looks amazing! When I shut my blinds and pull the drapes in front of the window, all light in the room vanishes completely. It’s like being inside of an abandoned coal mine 1000 yards under the surface of Pluto. Perfect.

How often do you play sports?
I grew up playing a wide variety of sports, and from the age of 5 until 16, I played soccer, hockey, badminton, swimming, floorball, judo, table tennis, and probably a few more. I wasn’t among the best players on any team sport I tried, because my motor skills developed quite lately. That all changed at about age 16, and suddenly it felt like I became good overnight. At that point, I had just started playing American football and lifting weights. I quickly became a good player, and progressed up to the point of playing for the Swedish national team, and the European all-star team as a starting linebacker in the official pre-superbowl world tournament 2003 in San Diego. After a few serious concussions, I quit playing in 2005 and since then I work out for fun. I lift weights, do cardio, gymnastics strength & stretching 3-5 times per week. I’ve also competed in fitness as a Men’s Physique athlete. Training is a huge part of my identity and something I couldn’t imagine living without.

What fictional place would you most like to go?
Tough one. I’d rather visit a lot of historical times and places like ancient Greece, colonial India, Rome, Chinese dynasties etc. I guess I’m the perfect customer for Westworld’s parks ha ha. If I have to choose a fictional place, I could consider the sewer den of the Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles.

What job would you be terrible at?
Any monotone uneducated job that doesn’t stimulate the mind or offer any kind of career advancement opportunities. Like supermarket cashier. I tried it, got fired after 3 months.

When was the last time you climbed a tree?
Can’t remember, but probably much more recent than I think!

If you could turn any activity into an Olympic sport, what would you have a good chance at winning medal for?
Meal planning & efficient cooking.

What is the most annoying habit that other people have?
Not respecting the noise level of public places. Talking loudly or playing music so that others in the vicinity fall victim to hearing even though they probably don’t want to.

What job do you think you’d be really good at?
Under cover testing, evaluating and suggestion of improvements for restaurants, hotels, bars and clubs. I’m not a bad stripper either 😉

What skill would you like to master?
Scratching as a DJ. I want to learn it as much as I want to breathe.

What would be the most amazing adventure to go on?
Motorcycle road trip of pan-american highway. It’s on my bucket list.

If you had unlimited funds to build a house that you would live in for the rest of your life, what would the finished house be like?
Something like the scene in The Great Gatsby when the camera does a flyover shot of Tom Buchanan’s house. But I’d also add a secret underground tech area like the bat cave. When I build or buy a mansion, there must be a long straight alley of trees leading up to it.

What’s your favorite drink?
Not much beats a big glass of good red wine in the company of delicious food!

What state or country do you never want to go back to?
Can’t think of any place that I won’t want to visit again. However, I rarely chose to go back to places I visit, simply because there are so many other places on my list that I want to visit too!

What songs have you completely memorized?
None, unfortunately. I have a plan of one day learning to sing a song REALLY really well, just to totally shock a karaoke audience. But I haven’t gotten started on that yet.

What game or movie universe would you most like to live in?
Heroes of might and magic, hands down. Easy. I grew up playing HOMM 2 & 3, still the best games in history, IMO.

What do you consider to be your best find?
A handmade bronze cobra head for walking cane. I bought it from a Chinese crafts artist on ebay, and made a unique cane out of it by ordering an Italian cane, scrubbing the surface and painting it gold.

Are you usually early or late?
Early. I hate stress.

What pets did you have while you were growing up?
Loads of cats. I don’t have anything against pets but I’m not a pet person, and I’ll probably never get my own.

When people come to you for help, what do they usually want help with?
Nutrition plans and exercise plans to lose weight. I used to put my time and effort into giving them to friends for free, but I stopped doing it since they don’t follow them anyway. Just a waste of my time, really. Especially since I’ve almost never gotten anything back in return. I don’t mind helping friends, but the problem with a free service is that people don’t value it since it doesn’t cost them anything to obtain. Never mind the fact that I’ve put 25 years of passionate reading books, studies, science and experimenting on myself into it..

What takes up too much of your time?
Mundane tasks like commuting and laundry. I’ve effectively solved cooking, and laundry is up for an experiment that has just started. Can’t do much about the commuting though.

What do you wish you knew more about?
It’s always baffled me why skin and the body keep ageing despite all the cells in the body constantly being renewed and replaced.

What would be your first question after waking up from being cryogenically frozen for 100 years?
What year is it?

What are some small things that make your day better?
The joy of having perfected my lifestyle to make it easy and remove as much of hassle and time consuming mundane tasks as possible. Like only needing to cook once a week and always having delicious food ready each night.

Who’s your go to band or artist when you can’t decide on something to listen to?
Podcasts. I follow Knowledge For Men, The daily, and a slew of great pods by Swedish NPR.

What shows are you into?
Game of thrones, Westworld, One piece, Suits, Gotham, Fresh off the boat, Better call Saul. And it would be a sin not to mention the best series ever made: Deadwood.

What TV channel doesn’t exist but really should?
I haven’t owned a TV in 8 years. Biggest waste of time ever. I usually watch a series episode with my brother while having dinner, but I NEVER randomly watch TV.

Who has impressed you most with what they’ve accomplished?
One of them is running back Rocky Bleier. He was injured by a grenade during the Viet Nam war and his walking was crippled by metal fragments still in his foot. Despite that, he battled through the pain of running, and managed to play in the NFL for Pittsburgh Steelers and win the Superbowl.

What age do you wish you could permanently be?
I’m 34 now and not complaining. Still got the fit ripped body of 22, most of my strength, and my temper has matured and improved. I don’t feel that unruly stress or anxiety of being a young man. I know myself very well, I’m completely comfortable about who I am, what my values are. Would be nice to stay like this!

What TV show or movie do you refuse to watch?
Anything horror. I’ve never understood why people voluntarily give their valuable time to watch something that makes them frightened, when they could instead choose to laugh or watch something that has a positive impact on their life. “No, I want to be scared, not dare to look at the screen, and probably not be able to fall asleep”. Idiotic.

What would be your ideal way to spend the weekend?
Completely alone in a huge luxurious suite, perhaps in a remote hotel or cruise line. Nobody disturbing me, I could go to the ships gym, hit the restaurants, and spend quality time alone working on projects, studying or learning something. Fact is, I’ve wanted to to such a get-away trip for years. It’s going to happen sooner or later. Think about how nice it would be to bring my laptop and spend a full two weeks away from any social media, working out, eating good food, and organizing my DJ library of songs and playlists into complete perfection. Paradise!

What is something that is considered a luxury, but you don’t think you could live without?
Alone time.

What’s your claim to fame?
The closest I ever was to being famous is a letter from a TV production company, hand picking me to come to an audition for a role of gladiator (not contestant) on the 2003 Swedish version of American Gladiators. I would have gone, but our team had a national semi final game that date, and I couldn’t let my team down by skipping the game.

What’s something you like to do the old-fashioned way?
Cook. I love to cook, and I’m good at it. I never buy processed or ready made food (microwave meals).

What’s your favorite genre of book or movie?
Book: Facts and autobiographies. I don’t read for entertainment, I read to get better at stuff and improve my life.
Movie: Sci-fi, adventure, action-comedy.

How often do you people watch?
It’s not something I schedule into my calendar. I do it if I don’t have anything else to spend my time doing. Like if I’m waiting for a flight. Occasionally on trips, if I visit a cafe or nice hotel lobby.

What have you only recently formed an opinion about?
Not many of my opinions are set in stone. I’ve learned a very valuable lesson of being able and willing to admit that I’m wrong. If somebody can present true facts that contradict my opinion on something, I have no problems changing my opinion. It’s a skill few people can do. Wars have been started over not being able to change opinions and admitting to be wrong, despite overwhelming facts.

What’s the best single day on the calendar?
Every Monday. I’ve never understood people who don’t like Mondays- a fresh week to get closer to your goals and improve your life. I’m sure people who love their life love Mondays. I also think it’s such a loser mentality to not like Mondays. If you don’t like Mondays, you probably don’t have the right full time occupation. Take responsibility for your life and do something about it instead of whining. I can’t stand people who complain about everything but don’t take any action to change.

What are you interested in that most people haven’t heard of?
Most people have probably heard of it, but I have a strange fascination for con artists, mythomaniacs and people with a hugely exaggerated ego & self confidence.

How do you relax after a hard day of work?
Have a delicious bite to eat while watching an episode of some series with my brother.

What was the best book or series that you’ve ever read?
Fact: Either some of Robert Greene’s books like 33 Strategies of war, or a historical book about con artists by Dan Glimne.
Fiction: Gregory David Roberts – Shantaram. Hands down, very hard to beat that one.

What’s the farthest you’ve ever been from home?
I’d guess Komodo Islands in Indonesia. Getting a rescue diver certificate and chillin’ with some komodo dragons.

What is the most annoying question that people ask you?

What could you give a 40-minute presentation on with absolutely no preparation?
Nutritional strategy to get in shape, meal planning, workout planning, lifestyle design and set up.

If you were dictator of a small island nation, what crazy dictator stuff would you do?

What is something you think everyone should do at least once in their lives?
Get in really really good shape. To quote Socrates: “What a disgrace it is for a man to grow old without ever seeing the beauty and strength of which his body is capable.”. Such total truth. Many people waste their lives, their potential and their self esteem by not taking responsibility for their body and health.

Would you rather go hang gliding or whitewater rafting?
Allowed to choose both??

What’s your dream car?
I don’t look at cars as anything other than a means of transport. My father told me as a kid that “nothing dries up a man’s wallet faster than owning a car”, and that’s something I’ve always remembered. Too many people (especially guys) waste a lot of money on getting a flashy car. The thing is, NOBODY cares what car you drive. My ideal car is one that transports me as cheaply as possible while being safe and not too ugly.

What’s worth spending more on to get the best?

What is something that a ton of people are obsessed with but you just don’t get the point of?

What are you most looking forward to in the next 10 years?

Where is the most interesting place you’ve been?

What’s something you’ve been meaning to try but just haven’t gotten around to it?

What’s the best thing that happened to you last week?

What piece of entertainment do you wish you could erase from your mind so that you could experience for the first time again?

If all jobs had the same pay and hours, what job would you like to have?

What amazing thing did you do that no one was around to see?

How different was your life one year ago?

What’s the best way to start the day?

What quirks do you have?

What would you rate 10 / 10?

What fad or trend do you hope comes back?

What’s the most interesting piece of art you’ve seen?

What kind of art do you enjoy most?

What do you hope never changes?

What city would you most like to live in?

What movie title best describes your life?

Why did you decide to do the work you are doing now?

What’s the best way a person can spend their time?

If you suddenly became a master at woodworking, what would you make?

Where is the most relaxing place you’ve ever been?

What is the luckiest thing that has happened to you?

Where would you rather be from?

What are some things you’ve had to unlearn?

What are you looking forward to in the coming months?

What website do you visit most often?

What one thing do you really want but can’t afford?

Where do you usually go when you when you have time off?

Where would you spend all your time if you could?

What is special about the place you grew up?

What age do you want to live to?

What are you most likely to become famous for?

What are you absolutely determined to do?

What is the most impressive thing you know how to do?

What do you wish you knew more about?

What question would you most like to know the answer to?

Somewhat personal questions to get to know someone

What question can you ask to find out the most about a person?

When was the last time you changed your opinion / belief about something major?

What was the best compliment you’ve received?

As the only human left on Earth, what would you do?

Who inspires you to be better?

What do you want your epitaph to be?

What did you think you would grow out of but haven’t?

In what situation or place would you feel the most out of place in?

What’s the dumbest thing you’ve done that actually turned out pretty well?

They say that everyone has a book in them. What would your book be about?

What is something you will NEVER do again?

What do you spend the most time thinking about?

What are some of the events in your life that made you who you are?

What do you wish your brain was better at doing?

There are two types of people in this world. What are the two types?

What is the strangest thing you have come across?

What is something you are certain you’ll never experience?

What dumb accomplishment are you most proud of?

If you could make one rule that everyone had to follow, what rule would you make?

What are you addicted to?

What stereotype do you completely live up to?

What is something you can never seem to finish?

As you get older, what are you becoming more and more afraid of?

What is one of your favorite smells?

What would be the scariest monster you could imagine?

What song or artist do you like but rarely admit to liking?

What would you do if you knew you were going to die in one hour?

What book impacted you the most?

If you had to change your name, what would you change it to?

If life is a game, like some people say, what are some of the rules?

Who is / was your most interesting friend?

Have you ever given to any charities?

What is something that your friends would consider “so you”?

What risks are worth taking?

What can you not get right, no matter how many times you try?

If you could convince everyone in the world to do one thing at one point in time, what would that thing be?

What do you take for granted?

What would be some of the most annoying things about having yourself as a roommate?

What’s something you are self-conscious about?

What personality trait do you value most and which do you dislike the most?

What small gesture from a stranger made a big impact on you?

What gets you fired up?

What challenging thing are you working through these days?

What irrational fear do you have?

What’s the best and worst piece of advice you’ve ever received?

Countdown timer

If you had a clock that would countdown to any one event of your choosing, what event would you want it to countdown to?

What makes a good life?

What do you strongly suspect but have no proof of?

What’s the last adventure you went on?

When do you feel truly “alive”?

What was the most memorable gift you’ve received?

What chapters would you separate your autobiography into?

What do you like most about your family?

What do you hope your last words will be?

What stat for your life would you most like to see?

What are three of the most significant numbers in your life?

What could you do with two million dollars to impact the most amount of people?

If you were put into solitary confinement for six months, what would you do to stay sane?

What’s something horrible that everyone should try at least once?

What fact are your resigned to?

Have you ever saved someone’s life?

What were some of the turning points in your life?

What would a mirror opposite of yourself be like?

What are you really good at, but kind of embarrassed that you are good at it?

What are three interesting facts about you?

Which of your scars has the best story behind it?

What’s the title of the current chapter of your life?

What’s the hardest lesson you’ve learned?

What mistake do you keep making again and again?

What do people think is weird about you?

When people look at you, what do you think they see / think?

What have you created that you are most proud of?

If you could make a 20 second phone call to yourself at any point in your life present or future, when would you call and what would you say?

What annoys you most about the in-groups you are a part of?

What do you have doubts about?

What do you want to be remembered for?

What are some of your personal “rules” that you never break?

What do you regret not doing or starting when you were younger?

If you could have a never-ending candle that smelled like anything you wanted, what fragrance would you want it to be?

What’s the best thing about you?

What bends your mind every time you think about it?

What’s the best thing you got from your parents?

What’s one responsibility you really wish you didn’t have?

What is the “holy grail” of your life?

If your childhood had a smell, what would it be?

What are the top three things you want to accomplish before you die? How close are you to accomplishing them?

What do you wish you could tell yourself 10 years ago? What do you think you’ll want to tell your current self 10 years from now?

In your group of friends, what role do you play?

Among your friends or family, what are you famous for?

What is the biggest lesson you never learned?

What’s the most immature thing that you do?

Open book

If your life was a book, what would its title be?

What’s the best and worst thing about getting older?

What’s something that happened or something that someone said that changed how you view the world?

What are you most likely very wrong about?

If you had a personal flag, what would be on it?

What lifestyle change have you been meaning to make for a while now?

What would be your spirit animal?

What incredibly strong opinion or belief do you have that is completely unimportant in the grand scheme of things?

What chance encounter changed your life forever?

If you could have a video of any one event in your life, what event would you choose?

If you were forced to relive one 10-minute block of your life again and again for all eternity, what 10 minutes of your life would you choose?

Very personal questions to get to know someone better

How do you hope you’ll change as a person in the future?

What keeps you up at night?

What’s the most surprising self-realization you’ve had?

What’s the most illegal thing you’ve done?

What lie do you tell most often?

What do you regret not doing?

What gives your life meaning?

What do you most often look down on people for? What do you think other people look down on you for?

What bridges do you not regret burning?

What are you most insecure about?

How do you get in the way of your own success?

What’s one thing you did that you really wish you could go back and undo?

What are you afraid people see when they look at you?